How to be a Good Parent?

           What makes a Good Parent? is it the status of the person in the society or it can be Gauge through the Profession? The Educational Level? Probably not. I Realized that Being a Good Parent for me is the most Challenging Part in my Life, Me and my Husband are not Perfect either.


  Families are Solid Foundations of every Society, as what our Teachers taught us at schools, Happy Families are Likewise Solid, So if a Couple are not a Good Parents to their Children, therefore this Foundation would suddenly Break, that's why everyday Parenting is always a battle for me, It's Really Hard because everyone of us has a Certain Reasons, i know there are lots of advices out there about Good Parenting and I had chosen this Helpful Points for us PARENTS to remember:

1. Make Family Time a Priority

    Need i say more? Once you had a Family of your own, we need to Balance our time between work, enjoyment and other reasons, but Make your Family a No. 1 Focus.

2. Be A Good Role Model

   Kids learn by watching their parents. Modeling appropriate, respectful, good behavior works          much better than telling them what to do.

3. Play with your children

    Let them choose the activity, and don't worry about rules. Just go with the flow and have fun. That's the name of the game.

4. Make warm memories

    Your children will probably not remember anything that you say to them, but they will recall the family rituals -- like bedtimes and game night -- that you do together.

5. Cheer the good stuff

    When you notice your child doing something helpful or nice, let him know how you feel. It's a great way to reinforce good behavior so he's more likely to keep doing it.

6. Don't accept disrespect from your child

    Never allow them to be rude or say hurtful things to you or anyone else. If she does, tell her firmly that you will not tolerate any form of disrespect.

7. Don't raise a spoiled kid

   Keep this thought in mind: Every child is a treasure, but no child is the center of the universe. Teach him accordingly.

8.  Eat at least one meal as a family each day

    Sitting down at the table together is a relaxed way for everyone to connect -- a time to share happy news, talk about the day, or tell a silly joke. It also helps your kids develop healthy eating habits.

9. Say "I love you" whenever you feel it

   My Favorite! even if it's 743 times a day. You simply can not spoil a child with too many mushy words of affection and too many smooches. Not possible.

10. Find out one important thing about your child's day

    Make an effort to ask your child what's their favorite activity for the day, or other questions you want to know, in this way you are showing an interest to them.

11. Listen to your Child

      they might want something to tell you, when you listen to your child you are building a friendship to them and they will treasure that for the rest of their life.

    That's it, I'll try my Best to Follow it because I want to Cherish every Golden Moments with my Children, I might be missing something to this post, So you are free to add some helpful tips if you have! Comment Down Below and Have a Great Day!!!



  1. This is the hardest job i guess and yeah there is no perfect parent but as long as you put God at the center of everything and make sure that you teach this to your children, everything will fall into right place.

  2. I always have doubts I am not a good parent. Our mistakes as parents become obvious when our kids grow up and become parents themselves. I don't know whether I am strict enough or I pamper my kids too much. A great post to think about.

    1. thank you vanessa, just pray and god will do the rest.

  3. One of the great ways to have bonding with kids is to play with them because when they grow up it’s not the same anymore. I hug my little sister when I remember just to show some affection. Sometimes I ask her what’s happening in the school and the likes.

  4. I think being a good parent means being there for them yet leave room for them to grow and not be spoiled.

  5. One of the hardest jobs in the world. Being parent is being yourself. Nurture your kids on the best that you can but never be too strict!

  6. Thanks for the post :) Some of these are not only for parents, but can apply to maintaining a good relationship with the spouse too.

  7. Awesome! For me, being a good parent means letting your kids have the freedom to be themselves while being the wind beneath their wings

  8. Definitely will keep this information on hand when I become one. :)

  9. I think there is really no right or wrong on how to be a good parent. As long as you are able to shower your children love and be there for them when they need you.